Day By Day…
"When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a manner that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice." - Cherokee Proverb
This quote ranks as one of the highest of my favorites, I feel that it truly epitomizes how life should be led. In just over 1 year, I've been unfortunate in having lost two friends who have really had an impact on my life. One of them being my fraternity brother, friend, inspiration, and all around source of everyone's joy - Jourdan Van Zeebroeck. And recently my very good friend, the free-spirited, all-smiles, marching to the beat of her own drum - Kristin Marie Norris. To me both of them truly lived by this quote, and have left an indelible effect on not only my life, but the lives of all the people they've met. In the recent days, I've had a number of sleepless nights reminiscing on the instances and the moments that at the time didn't seem too incredibly special - but after all has been said and done, really meant the most. Through these unfortunate circumstances, we grow and learn. I've learned that we should really cherish all that we have been given - both physical and metaphysical. Each and every moment should be lived to its utmost capacity, whilst being forever grateful for every bit of those moments. Be the tiny drop in the pond that makes ever-growing waves effecting all that surrounds it.
In Loving Memory of Jourdan Van Zeebroeck & Kristin Marie NorrisSources of Inspiration
I often find myself looking to others as a source of inspiration. But what makes someone worthy of being admired, revered, and/or loved? In my opinion, it really depends on the individual. I'm not speaking about famous people or world renowned idols, although there are some very notable figures, I believe that the people closest to you are the ones who directly effect your life and the decisions you make. Typically I'm the kind of person to turn to quotes and attempt to piece them together like some sort of puzzle guide to life. But recently, I've been really trying to be more positive about everyday life in general. I am very, very, very grateful for family and friends (both past and present) who have really helped develop me, into "me." I guess it's just apart of 'growing up,' but I've learned to really value the people around me. I guess after putting myself around some unsavory characters in my earlier life, I've managed to understand that surrounding yourself with people who are not necessarily like-minded individuals (though sometimes that helps), but individuals who can - in their own particular ways - push you to be more than what you think you can be. I guess what I'm trying to say, in not so many words, is THANK YOU! to everyone in my life for helping me grown and change, for the better. I don't think it's said enough, and it'd probably be awkward if I ever brought it up in conversation, but yeah, you're appreciated - greatly.